Wednesday, December 24, 2008

About Porn and Sex and Yaoi

I just read a blog (Sex With My Buddies) where the guy wrote about his first time having sex with one of his friends, and somebody had written a comment about it saying he couldn't read it because it was "too graphic". And the blog WAS graphic in that it told the details about what they did together, but it WASN'T just a porn blog because it was about a whole lot MORE than just the sex part. It was pretty beautiful actually.

Now I will admit that I like porn. But what I like is not just stuff about body parts rubbing on each other, what I like is the EMOTION that goes with that. If its a written story and its all just "Then I sucked him and then he fucked me with his huge throbbing cock" I'm not interested at ALL. And if its porn pics and all it shows is like a cock going into a butthole, then that doesn't do much for me either. If I can't see the FACES of the guys it just doesn't get me horny. And if the faces look like they are bored (which is true in a LOT of porn pics) that does just the opposite of getting me horny.


I wasn't sure at first when I started this blog about if I would put up any porn pics (I mean real porn not yaoi) but finally I did at the bottom. I did because its the kind of porn where you can tell by the faces that its not JUST sex, you can tell that the guys are really into each other. ANd thats also the reason why I like yaoi even more than real porn a lot of the time. Lots of yaoi pics are totally explicit and some of them are even pretty kinky but there is ALWAYS real emotion on the faces and with the best ones (like some of the ones I have put here I think) you can look at them and build a whole story around them just by the feeling that the faces show.

The pic at the top here is an example of a porn pic that is what I mean. Its one of my favorite non-yaoi pics even tho it doesnt even show any cock and even tho its not a good quality pic. What I love about it is the look on that boys face. Seriously. Thats the sexiest thing in the world because it tells me what he's FEELING.

4 comments:

Col said...

Thanks for your kind words Kyle.
I totally agree with what you are saying about faces and emotion. Stories and pictures like you describe don't turn me on either.

Great post!
Col

Doomed But Cheerful! said...

Remarkable start. Yaoi - more please. And what you say about faces - and your favourite drawing - right on the mark! Be good =]

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sobocity said...

Kyle--

Not all porn is sterile and masturbatory. Check out some of the quiet moments in the film clips of Kyros Christian and his partner Dillon Samuels parked around the web, and on xtube. Also are some of the encounters of Bel Ami model Josh Elliott, such as his encounter with Ralph Woods, or those with Kevin Ebola of Bel Ami.

J